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Freedpm father was a business man and, according to Erich, rather moody. His mother was frequently depressed. In other words, like quite a few of the people we've looked at, his childhood wasn't very happy. Like Jung, Erich came from a very religious family, in his case orthodox Jews. Fromm himself later became what he called an atheistic mystic.
Growing up in this sort of family, children learn to acknowledge their freedom and to take responsibility for themselves, and ultimately for society as a whole.
Families Which of the escapes from freedom you tend to use has a great deal to do with what kind of family you grew up in. Hoarding is associated with the cold form of withdrawing family, and with destructiveness. Fromm outlines two kinds of unproductive families.
I remember having heard that she had been engaged but after some time had broken the engagement; I remember that she was almost invariably in the company of her widowed father. This type is most common among peasant populations. When I get dressed in the morning, there are so many decisions! Authoritarians respond to a painful existence by, birls a sense, eliminating themselves: If there is no me, how can anything hurt me?
That's quite a mouthful, and made up of words that aren't exactly popular in the USA, but let me explain: Humanistic means oriented towards human beings, and not towards some higher entity -- not the all-powerful State nor someone's conception of God. This modern type comes out of the cool withdrawing family, and tend to use automaton conformity as hnited escape from freedom.
Fromm believes that our social unconscious is best understood by examining our economic systems. What makes up a good, healthy, productive family? The second withdrawing kind of family is the modern family, found in the most advanced parts of the world, most notably the USA. What makes up nymphomaniac chat good, healthy, productive family?
I am happily married, yet I cannot sleep The escape from freedom is particularly obvious here: It is automaton conformity. The exploitative orientation. In its pure form, it means you are stubborn, stingy, and unimaginative.
The hatred, the "war hysteria," frightened him, as well it should. If one of us fails to hold up our end of the arrangement, the marriage is null and void -- no hard feelings perhaps we can still be best of friends! Basically, if your father was a peasant, you'd be a peasant. It is so close to us that we usually forget that our society is just one of an infinite of is sexting cheating on spouse of dealing with the issues of life.
Punishment is cold-blooded, done "for your own good. But others respond to pain by striking out against the world: If I destroy the world, how can it hurt me? And then came democratic revolutions such as the American and the French revolutions. If you are a milder version of hoarding, you might be steadfast, economical, and practical.
Notice today's values as expressed to us by our mass media: Fashion, fitness, eternal youth, adventure, daring, novelty, sexuality In extremes, they are aggressive, conceited, and seducing. The exploitative orientation. He isn't alone, perhaps, but he's not himself either.
He has to find principles of action and decision making which replace the principles of instincts. In many classes, for example, there is an implicit contract between students and professors: Students demand structure, and the professor sticks to his notes.
It is this escape from freedom that s for much of the indiscriminate nastiness of life -- brutality, vandalism, humiliation, vandalism, crime, terrorism When the rules are more important than people, destructiveness is inevitable. If your father was a king, that's what you'd become. His mother was frequently depressed. Among their characteristic qualities is the ability to greedom comfortable ordering others around!
But our society emphasizes equality!
The first involved a friend of the family's: Maybe she was 25 years of age; she was beautiful, attractive, and in addition a painter, the first painter I ever knew. Automaton conformity. Like Jung, Erich came from a very religious family, in his case orthodox Jews. So, over a mere years, the idea of the individual, with individual thoughts, feelings, moral conscience, freedom, and responsibility, came into being.
He does, of course, have some ideas about what it will be like. In its extreme form, it can be characterized by adjectives such as submissive and wishful.
The hoarding orientation. There is less hierarchy to hide in though plenty remains for anyone who wants it, and some who don't. Less extreme, and he or she is purposeful, youthful, social. So, many times we believe that we are acting chay to our own free will, but we are only following orders we are so used to we no longer notice them.
In fact, things increase in value to the extent that they are taken from others: Wealth is preferably stolen, ideas plagiarized, love achieved by coercion. Woodchucks, for example, don't need career counseling to decide what they are going to be when they grow up: They are going to be woodchucks! He associates it particularly with the Protestant work ethic and such groups as our own Puritans. As I remember him, he was an old, uninteresting, and rather unattractive man, or so I thought maybe my judgment was somewhat biased by jealousy.
Fromm says that "I have it" tends to become "it has me," and we become driven by our possessions! Uorney children, now without any real adult guidance, turn to their peers and to the media for their values.
These people expect to have to take what they need. If one of borney fails to hold up our end of the arrangement, the marriage is null and void -- no hard feelings perhaps we can still be best of friends!
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